Dealing with gym intimidation
Signed up for a gym membership two months ago and I've gone exactly 3 times. Every time I walk in I feel like everyone is staring at the out of shape guy who doesn't know what he's doing. I know logically nobody cares but the anxiety is real.
Does this go away? Any tips for getting past this?
Here's what nobody tells you: every single person in that gym started exactly where you are. Every jacked dude had a first day where they felt out of place. Most of them respect the hell out of beginners because they remember how hard it was to start.
Go during off-peak hours if it helps (early morning or mid-afternoon). Wear headphones. Have a written plan so you're not wandering around. And remember: you have as much right to be there as anyone else. You're paying the same membership.
Headphones + a program on your phone = nobody bothers you and you look like you know what you're doing even if you're watching YouTube tutorials between sets (which is totally fine btw).
Also consider a few personal training sessions just to learn the basic movements. Having confidence in your form removes like 80% of the intimidation.
i felt the exact same way. what helped me was going at 5:30am when its basically empty. after a few weeks of that i got comfortable enough to go at regular hours. now i dont even think about it. baby steps man.
Something that helped me mentally: everyone at the gym is there because they're NOT where they want to be yet. Every single person, even the big guys. Nobody has arrived. You're all on the same journey, just at different points.